the ability to assess and initiate things independently."use your initiative, imagination, and common sense"
the power or opportunity to act or take charge before others do.
(Yeah, I just copied that shit from google)
Take a minute to read those two definitions. Re-read it until you completely understand it, because this is probably one of the main problems I come across when I deal with a paypig. You guys lack initiative! You don’t go out and just do something nice for your Domme, just because. No, you have to be told to do something. Or you do something because of what you can get in return. Now, don’t get me wrong, this is not true for all boys. They’re some of you that make me proud. You go out and do what you think will make your Domme happy, simple to make her smile. Whether it’s buying something off of her gift list, or tributing just because. Not because she told you to, or not to “pay” for sessions. But just because it’s the right thing to do. It’ll make your Domme smile and that’s the most important thing to you.
But then there are those who think, “What will I get in return?” The ones who refuse to do anything until they’re told in great detail what service will be given. The ones who are quick to say that Findommes are lazy because they expect paypigs to give them money without doing anything in return. Here’s a little advice, use that small brain of yours and do some research. There’s a difference between a Prodomme and a Findomme. Decide which one you’re looking for and search accordingly. Now, that’s not to say that you won’t get something in return (read on that here), but initiative is doing something before you’re told or asked to. You know your place and you know what’s expected of you and you act accordingly.
To all of my subs or collarme losers who have any inclination to mouth off on me: You are a drone and nothing more. You are not unique. I don’t need you. To imply otherwise would be to flatter yourself, and I’m certainly not in the business of allowing you to do that or doing that myself.
Here piggy piggy piggy. Just because I’ve been MIA doesn’t mean you guys can slack off on your job. Sending me your money. ALL OF IT.
Received this two days ago for my trip. It came in very handy yesterday. Thanks!
Hey guys! It’s me, Hellen Roxx!
Tumblr terminated my account because I’m a camgirl. No warning, no suspension, just total account termination. Their reason? ”Affiliate marketing” and “deceptive links”, because 90% of my posts linked to my websites (um duh!)
I didn’t get a chance to say goodbye to my followers, or to tell them where to find me. I’m hoping my camgirl/stripper/sugarbaby/etc friends, as well as fans, will reblog this for me, so that at least a handful of my followers will know where I’ve gone!
Twitter - @HellenRoxx
Website - HellenRoxx.com
I can’t post them as links, or it won’t show up in dashboards.
GUYS - if you can hit the “like” button, you can hit the “reblog” button, PLEASE!
So the biggest thing: I’m now opening up my Yahoo ID to prospective subs. This will be the initial line of communication, if you make me happy, you earn my private ID. Plain and simple. So go ahead and say Hi—-> Addictive_Annie (I’m probably always going to be listed as offline, say hi anyway because sometimes I’m always set to be invisible).
Going on a trip this week. Make me happy by sending shopping money via giftrocket to MistressAnnie2011@gmail.com
Stay tuned to find out how you can be a part of a very big part of my future—Grad School (yeah, your Mistress is smart too). Stay tuned little piggies…
Lol. It took a while trust me. I don’t have many subs/slaves because I only keep the loyal/obedient ones around. That’s the most important thing. If you expect it and they’re not giving it, they need to keep it moving. Trust me, they’ll come crawling back with wallet in hand eventually.
Also, not sure if you were asking how to start with findomme or not? If you were, let me know, I’d be more than happy to give you a few pointers on how to get started/research.
$160-Another weird number. I don’t know why, but it makes me twitch, lol.
**Another week and I should be able to start doing my nails again. Any of you ladies have any suggestions on how to reduce the damage done to your nails with acrylics.**
Yesterday I took my service slave, M, to the mall to buy me a couple of things for my upcoming trip (I’ll be leaving in 2 days and returning next week). I needed a more fitted black skirt (I’m a big fan of tight, bodycon skirts) and whatever else caught my eye.
I’m so in love with the above Maxi dress, it fits perfectly and it’s so on trend. I also love the small see through detail of the black skirt. It’s not actually pink underneath, but I wanted you all to see the cute little cutout. *both are from Fashion to Figure, one of my favorite plus size stores*
Clearly it’s not much, but since I was in a rush, I couldn’t stop by any other store. M also bought me an EZ pass (not pictured) since I’ll be driving and don’t want to bother with the long cash line.
Of course paypigs should ALWAYS sponsor a Goddess’s trip to ensure that she has fun with unlimited spending money, so I’m looking forward to all the gift rocket cards in my inbox at MistressAnnie2011(at)gmail(dot)com.